It's Our First Time, What should we expect?
Are people pushy or aggressive?
How do I obtain a membership to Cinsual?
How should we approach someone if we are interested?
What should I wear? Ladies wear your sexiest clothes or anything you feel comfortable in. We do encourage "theme attire" for our Parties and sometimes offer a discount for theme dress. People familiar with the lifestyle tend to dress a little bit more risqué, such as lingerie, short/tight dresses, etc. Some people dress as though they are going to a nightclub. However, you may wear WHATEVER you are comfortable in. If you are not sure try layering, wear your erotically sexy clothing underneath your regular nightclub attire and take things off as you become more comfortable. The MOST IMPORTANT thing to remember is to be comfortable. Gentlemen Please "Dress to Impress" - no jeans, tee shirts or flip-flops allowed. Dress code is strictly enforced. You will not be allowed entrance.
What time should I arrive? As early as possible! Doors open at 9 pm. Come On In, your membership card is your Invitation. The doors may be locked so press the bell if in doubt.
If you are coming to one of the Open Meets please do not wait until the last minute, we all have some place to be so please do not make us late because you are late... also you may miss us and the fun that follows.
What are the Members like? The average age of our members is 28-45; most are professionals. Our members are very friendly and respectful, creating an atmosphere that is easy to feel comfortable in. They are discreet and respect one another's privacy. The motto is: "what goes on in here stays in here"
It's Our First time, What should we expect? The most important thing to understand is that nothing is ever expected of you. You may simply dance, talk, or watch. We have many regulars that do just that. Of course, if you decide to partake, that's OK too! Our members are very respectful creating a comfortable enjoyable atmosphere. You are ALWAYS in control. We strive to create a sexually erotic charged atmosphere for our members' to feel at ease.
Are people pushy or aggressive? No. Our club members are very respectful of one another. 'No' means just that, 'NO'. We have never had to ask anyone to leave due to inappropriate behavior, but will do so if necessary. If a couple approaches you and you are not interested simply say "Thanks, but No Thanks". Everyone is a person and should be treated with respect and we will not tolerate any rude or obnoxiousness.
How do I obtain a Membership to Cinsual? We run our club as any private membership organization would. You can apply for membership at the event in Fort Myers or at the Meet & Greets in Sarasota. We are a private organization and require an in person screening before allowing membership. This is to protect everyones privacy and discretion.
How should we approach someone if we are interested? This is a woman ruled event. What this means is that the women have the final say. Ladies should approach the lady of the couple, introduce yourselves and let the ladies see where things stand. Let the ladies take the lead. A Note to the Guys: remember, she has the ticket be thankful she brought you along for the ride. Never wait until the man has gone to approach his woman and never talk to her as though he is not standing there.